“What do Japanese women think of men who aim to take them home from a shared table restaurant (aisekiya)? What kind of man would they think it’s okay to be taken home by? You, who clicked on this article, that’s honestly what you’re most curious about, isn’t it?
Everyone who clicked on this article, that’s honestly what you’re most curious about, isn’t it?
Even if you don’t actively aim for it, still… As a man, there’s a part of you that aspires to take someone home on the same day.
At a shared table restaurant, did you know that if you grasp a few tricks, it’s not impossible to make even a stunning beauty think, ‘I might not mind being taken home…’?
I’ve been to shared table restaurants over 200 times and have seen more friends being taken home than I can count on both hands and feet.
Please don’t point out that I haven’t been taken home…
So, from the experiences of friends who have successfully been ‘taken home’, we’ve conducted numerous interviews!
- What are the intentions of women who come to shared table restaurants?
- The flow of how they ended up being successfully taken home at a shared-table restaurant
- Characteristics of men who they thought would absolutely not take them home”
Let’s understand the intentions of women who come to shared-table restaurants
If you’re going to win a short-term battle, it’s important to know your opponent first. What expectations do women have when they head to a shared table restaurant? I’ll expose it from a woman’s perspective!
Are girls who come to shared table restaurants just looking for a free meal?
People who have failed at shared table restaurants often say that girls who come often are just looking for a free meal…
From a woman’s perspective, the answer is…
Honestly, there are not a few people with such a purpose. I myself have gone with the purpose of just drinking at the second place of a girls’ night out…
But, please look at this graph. Almost half are going there with the purpose of meeting someone! So, the conclusion leads to the next headline…
Being able to eat for free is a great excuse. Frankly, many people want to meet men. Girls also have days when they vaguely miss human warmth, or when something unpleasant has happened and they want to be fussed over by men.
But Japanese women’s pride doesn’t want to admit it.
Feeling that admitting to seeking men = being promiscuous… That’s why you can go to a shared table restaurant for a free meal.
I think the management of the shared table restaurant really understands the psychology of women.
What is the percentage of women who come with the purpose of being taken home? The percentage of women who come with the purpose of being taken home is probably the most curious topic
As shown in the previous graph, it’s not that high at 14%.
However, women often get more and more excited, so there are fewer people who are eager to do it (in various ways) from the beginning like men.
So, what is the purpose of women going to a shared table restaurant? The realization of that purpose depends on the skill of the man.
This might be okay to be taken home… A smart flow that makes you think!?
What is the purpose of women going to a shared table restaurant? The realization of that purpose depends on the skill of the man! I
So, let’s introduce that skill this time.
Playbook for Aisekiya shared table izakaya
This series of flows is a special method that I found out by interviewing five friends, “What is the flow of always being taken home? When do you think you want to be taken home?”.
I will introduce it, especially to the (perverted) gentlemen who are reading this article…”
Spend at least 30 minutes at the shared table restaurant to liven up the atmosphere
The conversation is lively, Maybe this is going well?
Can I take her to a private, erotic space?
Since shared-table restaurants are time-limited, I think there are men who get impatient thinking it’s a waste of money to stay there forever…
However, suggesting going out immediately is a no-go. That’s because she might think, ‘This guy is trying to take me out right away, he’s stingy~’.
Girls cool off in a second with stingy Japanese men.
Spend a certain amount of time warming up the atmosphere at the shared table restaurant.
The real game starts from second place!
Girls let their guard down with a slight buzz and the fun of the moment. Let’s drink, liven up, and have fun.
At shared table restaurants, it’s noisy and there are friends around, so girls can’t get into an erotic mood.
The only ones who can score a goal right away are probably Otani Shohei. (Just my preference, lol)
The second place should be a place where you can have fun, drink, and get a little erotic. Karaoke is a typical example, isn’t it?
Anyway, liven up the place and keep the drinks flowing.
When the girls are having fun, they start to feel like they don’t have to go home on the last train.
Gradually close the distance. Increase body touch to create an erotic atmosphere.
Once the excitement has subsided and the last train is nearing, get close to the girl you’re aiming for and flirt with her.
It’s a classic, but start with a jab like pinching her side, and if you can hold her hand in the end…
Victory is right in front of you.
If the atmosphere is too flashy, the girl’s ‘creepy’ switch will be turned on, so keep it moody and smart.
Just the two of you…
If you’ve managed to get through steps 1-4 without any problems, you can pretty much consider it a goal.
You could suggest going to a place where you can be alone.
Or you could flirt for a while and savor the afterglow.
After that, please enjoy yourselves (lecherous face).
